That's all it took, about a week for it to come out that he was "dating" me and someone else at the same time. Sure, I was broken hearted, I had feelings for him, we had been talking for a llllooonnng time and I was being lied too. I felt betrayed, like I was being cheated on in a sense. Sure we had not made anything "official" yet, but if I ask you a question and you flat out lie to me, what else am I supposed to think?
Come to find out, this "other" girl, or child shall I call her, since she was ONLY 19 years old, was part of an escort service. Apparently, she just posed as a "date" for guys, but come on, who are we fooling here. See I am a no nonsense kind of person, and I was pissed, I was beyond pissed. I did not talk to him for probably a good 2 to 3 weeks. I have no problem finding someone to date, I can move on to the next person, no problem. The problem is, I had feelings for HIM.
I finally broke down and took his call after a few weeks, it was right before Christmas. He told me that he wanted to be with me, and not with this other girl. So we went out and I remember going back to his house....ahem correction, his parents house because that is where he was living, and his dad approaced him as we were walking in. He pulled him aside and I could kind of hear the conversation that was going on, it was tense. What I got from it was this "other" girl had called while we were out and it made his dad very uncomfortable having to make an excuse for him and he needed to make a choice. So when he came back in the room I told him to call her...that second. He didn't want too because his oldest son was in the room with us and that put him in an awkward position, so I told him to call or I walk. He called, I listened to him tell her everything. She was screaming at him as any child would, and the conversation was over.
I remember going home that night feeling bad for her, and uneasy about our future. I knew it was not a good foot to start off on, but I already had such strong feelings for him, something told me it would be okay. He had this way with words to keep me hanging on.
Come to find out, this "other" girl, or child shall I call her, since she was ONLY 19 years old, was part of an escort service. Apparently, she just posed as a "date" for guys, but come on, who are we fooling here. See I am a no nonsense kind of person, and I was pissed, I was beyond pissed. I did not talk to him for probably a good 2 to 3 weeks. I have no problem finding someone to date, I can move on to the next person, no problem. The problem is, I had feelings for HIM.
I finally broke down and took his call after a few weeks, it was right before Christmas. He told me that he wanted to be with me, and not with this other girl. So we went out and I remember going back to his house....ahem correction, his parents house because that is where he was living, and his dad approaced him as we were walking in. He pulled him aside and I could kind of hear the conversation that was going on, it was tense. What I got from it was this "other" girl had called while we were out and it made his dad very uncomfortable having to make an excuse for him and he needed to make a choice. So when he came back in the room I told him to call her...that second. He didn't want too because his oldest son was in the room with us and that put him in an awkward position, so I told him to call or I walk. He called, I listened to him tell her everything. She was screaming at him as any child would, and the conversation was over.
I remember going home that night feeling bad for her, and uneasy about our future. I knew it was not a good foot to start off on, but I already had such strong feelings for him, something told me it would be okay. He had this way with words to keep me hanging on.
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